Pamela Anderson remarried her ex-husband, Rick Salomon, in either late 2013 or January 2014. Then in July 2014, Pam filed for divorce. Again. Then she asked a judge to dismiss the divorce filing (around the same time that she wrote a poem about all of the freaky crap Rick was into), then she refiled again this year. Their first marriage only lasted a few months, and the brief amount of time allowed Rick to get it successfully annulled. But the second time around has gotten really messy. Actually, “messy” is probably an understatement. Pam has gotten a restraining order against Rick, claiming that there is a “pattern of abuse” and that Rick might truly hurt her. In fact, while they were married, he apparently tried to smother her while they were having sex. Good God.

Not long after filing for divorce from poker player Rick Salomon, Pamela Anderson has been granted a restraining order against her ex. The temporary order, filed Friday, will hold until the court hearing scheduled for April 3, according to court documents obtained by PEOPLE. In the docs, Anderson, 47, alleges that Salomon’s pattern of abuse had become so severe that she was “scared of what he is capable of doing to me.”

Since Anderson filed for divorce from Salomon in February, she alleges in the documents that his behavior “has become erratic, out of control and has caused me to fear for my safety.”

Anderson recounted an occasion in late January when he allegedly put a pillow over her face while they were having sex in an attempt to smother her. The documents also claim that when Salomon is “upset,” he calls her “cruel names” such as “slut,” “ugly old b––” and “crack whore.”

In the weeks leading up to their divorce, Anderson received a number of harassing e-mails and text messages from her soon-to-be-ex and her associates, she claims. In one email send on March 3, Salomon allegedly called Anderson a “cutter” and called her a “serial baby killer with her husbands.” He also claimed that she had begged him to get her pregnant while they were married. In another email that Anderson filed with the docs, Salomon accuses Anderson of “fraud” for eating fish. “I hate the smell of fish,” he says. “It makes me want to vomit.”

Salomon would also allegedly send Anderson photos of his then-wife that he had taken of her nude and without her consent, “demonstrating that he has the power to send it to anyone if I did not do what he wants,” she claims.

Salomon’s lawyer tells PEOPLE that “Rick is not going to comment,” adding that they haven’t been served with the application for the protection order. “Therefor, we’re not in a position to comment on it,” he says.

[From People]

It sounds like Salomon is an unhinged lunatic. It sounds like he could do real harm to Pam and/or himself. It sounds like Pam was in another abusive situation and she’s trying very hard to extricate herself. I hope… ugh. I hope Rick stays away from her. I hope the divorce is granted and the restraining order is continued indefinitely. I’m not victim-blaming at all, but my God, Pam has terrible taste in men. I’ve said it before, but she’s like a dirtbag-magnet. She always ends up with the biggest losers.

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